Life is still good! Very good!

My life is so good! It’s been a very long time since I wrote my first entry and a whole lot of water has gone under my life’s bridge. Still grateful and amazed at my wonderful life – every day! Just celebrated my 25th (+50) birthday, and despite a few health challenges, both my health and Honey’s health are still good for our ages. We still summer in Maine (in a 30′ camper) and winter in Florida (in a 1300 SF house). We still live and travel with 3 cats. We lost Simon last Christmas but adopted a rescue named Lilly. The other two Furballs, Queenie and Leroy, aren’t sure they want another Furball to share the food and attention but I tell them to just get over it. Don’t really think they listen or care (after all they’re cats). We still enjoy a very good sense of humor and enjoy each other (and the Furballs).

The past few years have been hard on everyone. Scary times. Covid. Living our lives in a panic is not a good thing no matter what age. We all lost so much battling a disease that truly got out of control. We lost things we will never get back. People (health and death), Places(establishments that couldn’t survive shutdowns), Things (manufacturing and shutdown jobs), Time (memories: lost childhoods, family and friends gatherings, isolation) and Faith that the Good Lord will take care of us. Society should have done a better job taking care of us. We should have taken better care of ourselves. Our common sense should have kicked in. Where was our Faith? Why did we allow elected politicians to make our life’s rules? For me, residing in two different states pointed out the glaring differences in how things were handled. I have to go with the one that did less is more. And so the battle goes.

We focus a lot on food. I spend a lot of time buying groceries. That’s what old people do. I’m not really old at 25(+50) and neither is Honey (80) for we both believe age is a number and state of mind. About 15 years ago, my Sis and Favorite Brother-in-Law lived with and cared for my then 90-year-old Mom. Mom and BIL were both 3 meals a day, all planned in advance or I might starve people. Sis was not. They’d be eating breakfast (coffee only for her if she even sat at the table with them) and would be deciding on what to have for lunch and supper. Sis hadn’t reached the What are we going to do today? Eat! stage of life yet. I’m not quite there yet either although I do think a lot about snacks. Honey is. For the past 6 years, he has cooked breakfast for us. Coffee, juice, bacon or sausage, eggs (fried, soft-boiled), and sometimes toast. I’m spoiled. Let me say this about eating. I had weight loss surgery about 20 years ago. I eat small amounts. I don’t get hungry but know my body needs good food. I prefer snacks. A good breakfast (usually just an egg and coffee) sticks with me for a long time. Honey on the other hand, What’s for lunch? and of course When’s supper? The good thing for me is that in spite of not caring too much about eating food, I do like to cook. Somewhere I have a collection of rarely used cookbooks and of course, you can get some good ideas from the internet. Honey is easy to cook for – anything with tomatoes is favored. I also have learned how to size down recipes and cook for two because I don’t like dealing with leftovers.

When Honey and I first started going together, he said one of his favorite dishes was American Chop Suey. In my mind, it was a version of Chinese Chop Suey Americanized. Not so, it’s a Maine thing. Imagine my surprise when he cooked it for me……………it’s like my Mom’s version of Goulash! Living in a camper I don’t use the stove (too slow lol) but that’s ok because I have several electric appliances that work very well. I try to adapt my recipes and make most meals a 1 pot meal. My go-to is a Presto 5-quart electric pot and I bought one and use it in the Florida house.

American Chop Suey

8 oz ground beef

1/2 cup chopped onion (use more if you want)

1 16 oz can petite diced tomatoes

1 8 oz can tomato sauce

1/4 cup dried macaroni or orzo

Garlic powder or minced garlic, Salt & Pepper to taste

Shredded cheese (cheddar or mozzarella are good)

In a 2-3 quart pan brown ground beef and onions. Add tomatoes, sauce, garlic, salt and pepper.

Let simmer at least 30 minutes. Then add 1/2 cup of water and let simmer a few minutes then add the macaroni or orzo to the pot. Let cook another 15 minutes.

Dish up, rather bowl up! Serve with cheese on top, salad and bread of choice.

In spite of all that’s going on in our lives, we have to look for positive things and enjoy every day. Don’t sweat the small stuff. To quote a song “God is Great, beer is good, and people are crazy” – Life is really good if you acknowledge the Blessings in your life.

Me & little Sis about 1952 on a Sunday drive and picnic – Momma always said share with your sister –

How did I get to be this old?

My life is so good – really!  Hello! I have many names — Linda, Minnie, Sister, Mom, Mimi, CatMom, Friend, Lover, Fruitcake just to name a few.  I live winters in Florida and summers in Maine with my Honey and our 3 cats Queenie, Simon and Leroy (we just this morning changed his name from LT).  I’m 20 (+50) years old and am daily both grateful and totally amazed at my wonderful life.  I’ve always thought life was good or maybe good enough is a better term. My son once told me “Mom, you make your own happy” and he is right.  Blessed with a positive attitude, a happy smile and to always be able  see the good in everyone helped me to have Faith that everything would be ok.  I had wonderful parents that made sure my Sister and I were the center of their universe.  I have a beautiful Sister, an awesome Son, a sassy Granddaughter, two handsome Grandsons (all my grands think they are my very favorite!), a one in a million very special Honey, other great family members and some wonderful friends and Cats! Wow! Lucky, Lucky girl!

I’ve learned that as one ages, it’s important to keep a good sense of humor.  I have also learned, that as one ages, you can do some really silly, stupid things.  Like put your hand/arm in a spinning dryer………….that wasn’t fun but when asked how I got the gash in my right forearm, I explained it with “I’m old” – nuff said LOL  It’s also important to stay on top of health issues.  I enjoy good health.  And until last week took no prescription meds other than allergy medication that is available over the counter but asked for a prescription so I could be reimbursed by my Health Savings Account.  Well, since the Ides of March 2018, I have had more doctor appointments than I have in the past 10 years.  I now have the the utmost compassion and sympathy for people who’s health is fragile and depend upon the medical community to help them maintain their health.  We are given one body – everybody’s body is different and sometimes we have no control over the health of that body.  So, lately I  have had my bones scanned, boobs squashed, colonoscopy, endoscopy, hernia surgery (put off incisional hernia since weight loss surgery in 2002)   shoulder neurofibromatosis tumor surgery (who knew I would have a disease in common with the Elephant Man and that surgery also put off for more than 10 years). Next a stress test scheduled with my new cardiologist because of family heart issues.  I have filled out a gazillion medical questionnaires  and been interviewed by medical assistants and doctors and PAs all asking the same questions – do you smoke? – no – Good.  have you ever? – no – Good. do you drink? – yes – How much?  Well, I’m old and that’s what old women do.  They never know what to say!

My life is good! Found I have Barrett’s Esophagus so added one new med omeprazole  – went to doctor today to have staples removed from my shoulder neurofibromatosis tumor surgery and he wanted to check my hernia surgery – he said I’m recovering nicely – take it easy and not to lift more than 20 pounds.  My Honey went in to talk with the doctor with me because he thought I was doing too much – would you believe Honey didn’t want me to use my sewing machine???  Dr said sewing machine is fine……..that’s good because I’ve got a quilt to finish for grandson’s graduation but that’s another story.

Time for cocktails with my Honey……..We’ll chat soon!